It happens all the time. If you are fairly decent-looking guy, and you fuck around, it’s probably happened to you many times in the past. What am I talking about? I’m talking about a situation where a fuckbuddy became an enemy. That’s right—this female in your social circles became a friend with benefits.
At first, it started out well. You would meet in certain places, bang the fuck out each other, and move on. Eventually, she started getting emotionally attached to you. You didn’t have anything to do with that because you thought that the rules were clear. You thought that she just wanted to have sex with you, ride on your dick, and everybody has a good time. Unfortunately, she thought you were husband material and that’s where all the problems began. She started talking behind your back, and now a lot of your female friends think you are Frankenstein. They think you’re a monster.
What went wrong? Very simple. You stuck your dick in the wrong hole. If you don’t want your fuck to become enemies, follow these simple tips.
Make sure both of you are clear as to the rules
Before you stick your dick in that hole, make sure you’re clear as to the rules. The rules are fairly simple: You will remain friends, but you get to fuck from time to time. You’re free to see other people. As long as you play it safe with each other, you can fuck away. The rules are pretty straightforward, reasonable, and shouldn’t produce any unnecessary drama. If your partner doesn’t sign off to these rules, stay the hell away from her.
Never let your emotions get in the way
A lot of guys like to think that they can separate their emotions from their penises. This is wishful thinking. A lot of us actually feel an emotional attachment the moment we ejaculate inside a female. This is natural. It’s very easy to feel an emotional bond.
However, if you’re in a fuck friend situation, don’t let your emotions get in the way. You will only end up getting hurt. The worst situation that I’ve seen regarding friends with benefits is when a guy is reduced to the emotional state of a pre-pubescent little girl because the woman whom he has a fuck friend relationship with didn’t want to have anything to do with him after having sex with him.